Theories are made in all eras of history for the betterment of humankind and world. Theories bring us forward. A simple theory of intellectual and intelligent man can teaches us a whole level of diploma education. They have power. They dominate.
More than a decade ago, theories poured in the West banning the word NO to be addressed to children. Pakistan, which is normally behind everything that happens in the world around its borders, started following these theories of NO almost a decade ago too.
Banning NO just doesn’t make any sense to me. I was brought up by parents who yelled NO every time I opted for something wrong. Well, I turned out fine, same with all the people who were born before 1990’s. This was the method of raising children with discipline. The word NO told us to be aware of harmful things in life. It stopped us getting hurt yet still kept us close to our parents. It didn’t restrict our horizon of experiments into new things but surely made us realize the things that brought severe consequences.
You have discussed a very good issue on parenting and children. You made good points on discipline and why parents should be strict enough with their children from the very beginning. I was born in the late 80's and I used to be angry with my parents when they said NO too. But now, I really do understand what drives them to act in such manner.