I keep hearing arguments among men and women about being superior or equal and I keep wondering if the system was the other way round, would they still have these spats?
 
 
I am sure they would still be scuffling.
 
Although I am a woman and I DO vote for equality but I also DO insist on equality on moral grounds of genders rather than physical and emotional comparison. 
 
I believe that men are superior to women physically. They are stronger and there is no doubt about it. Women were born weak. Men did not make women subordinates intentionally in the beginning of the human race but they saw that in those harsh days of survival when your existence depended on your strength and severity to environment, women could not perform well for protection. Although, women made grounds for survival easy by gaining superiority over domesticities hence started the traits. Women have innate ability and untaught education of household government. Any woman who has not been exposed to cooking would be able to cook without guidance or sew clothes or clean or take care of children without frown. A man needs tutoring in these fields. BUT exceptions exist. A man, on contrary, is born to defend and protect.
 
In the modern world where education is compulsory, women and men are taught in equal ways but that doesn’t reduce men’s physical strength. BUT it does increase women mental strength. 
 
Women are born smarter than men. They have weak bodies but strong minds. And I believe, to conquer or to lead one needs smartness not strength. And women are blessed with this gift. They have wider mental capacities, deep memories, and good intra-personal skills.
 
Men are not capable of multitasking like woman. If they come face to face with multiple situations, they tend to drive away or collapse. Women on the other hand can cook, clean, bring up children and work in an office as she goes. She would be thinking on working strategies at work simultaneously solving domestic issues in mind. She would go home and feed children, do dishes and laundry, help children with homework, clean and beautify herself. Men would attach to the couch and watch a game.
 
Not all men are capable of taking care of house like a woman does and have an employment at work. They complain if they have to balance both forces. They remind women that house and children are her jobs. BUT I have not seen women complaining when they have to do a man’s job and take care of her instinctive duty of household too. She never says “this is your job and this is mine.” She can do both. 


 
Can a man be equal on this?
 

 Then I hear people saying that all the great inventions and brainy discoveries and theories were men’s credentials. I agree BUT this is because that women were never allowed education. Academies were only for men for centuries. Women later were educated at homes only to the extent of writing and reading. It is just nearly a century ago that women were given opportunity to higher college education. The first coeducation college  Oberlin College was founded in 1833 but easy acceptance of women was only seven decades ago. By the late 1970s, women’s enrollment in college exceeded men’s and, today, women make up the majority of undergraduates (57%) on college campuses. Women earn better college grades than men do, and are more likely than men to complete college. Hence the existence of several successful, well credited women in modern world.

Women have evolved in past fifty years with the help of college education. They are conquering work force. They are running countries. Men, perhaps in historic manuscript-ed minds, find it hard to accept that days of animal hunt are over. May be this is the reason most men do not like working under female bosses. They taunt her hormone-derived emotions, which she can’t help. Unfortunately, men forget the fact that they themselves are derived by their hormone-rush round the clock thinking superior. A woman never complains or taunt.

 
Although, many (not most) men now respect women’s dual facets and her mental strength but most still believe in suppressing her.
 

Today’s luxury-desired fast life requires both men and women to work shoulder to shoulder in professional and domestic fields. This is the only key to a happy life.



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